We are so lucky to finally have a closing date, 1/30/2012. Let's just hope that the world's worst phase 2 negotiator doesn't screw it up again :) (so optimistic, I know. I'm working on it)
Adam got his first real injury Sunday afternoon. He was waking up from his afternoon nap and Tyler heard him. It isn't unusual for the boys to go say hi to him while I finish up whatever I'm doing and then I'll go grab him out of his crib. This time, I was putting a batch of cookies in the oven that the boys just helped me make. In the time it took me to put the final 3 cookies on the tray, put it in the oven, and wash my hands, I hear a frantic Tyler saying, "Mom, come quick. I think I hurt Adam really bad!" Not the words any mom wants to hear.
I flew up the stairs 3 at a time and run to Adam's room to find his crib has completely collapsed on him and he is pinned under the mattress and support board. His eyebrow is cut and bleeding and as I try to pull him out, I find out that his arm is pinned too. Great. Momentary freak out, a few hasty maneuvers, and I have my poor, bloodied, crying baby in my arms. I must say that I am proud for not loosing it on poor Tyler. I just sternly told him to wait in his room for me and hurried about to rinse off the blood and see how bad the cut on Adam's head really was. I know head wounds can bleed a lot, so I was relieved when the blood stopped fairly quickly and the cut was decent (about 1/2 inch) but not gnarly enough to require a Sunday ER trip- those are the best.
We got little guy all fixed up, checked his eyes to make sure he didn't knock his head too hard, then talked to Tyler. Come to find out Tyler had crawled under Adam's crib and was pushing up from the bottom- which totally makes sense how everything happened. All Tyler could say was, "I am so, so, sorry!" over and over. We explained he did the right thing to get us right away but he should never play like that again. I don't know who was more shook up by the ordeal, Tyler, Adam, or me. After calming down the boys frosted some cookies and we dropped them off at the cousins house.
That night, Adam didn't sleep well again and he threw up so now I was up all night worrying about if the throwing up was from hitting his head or just from crying so hard. I was already pretty convinced that he had an ear infection again, and our appointment this morning confirmed that poor Adam has ear infection #2. More antibiotics for our poor boy. He's still weighing just under 22 lbs. Tyler had a well check today to get his shots for preschool that he go into on our new side of town. He is 45 lbs right now (4 1/2 yrs old).
On to the funny things the boys have been saying. My favorite involves Ryan. The boys both keep saying how excited they are to work at CarMax with their daddy some day. They really think it's the coolest place ever. They love to check out the cars that Ryan brings home each day. Tyler got to visit Grandpa Crooks at work a few times when we were visiting Roseville and he said, "Why does Grandpa work in an office? That's boring. He should work at CarMax." If only we could get paid for Tyler's marketing campaign for CarMax ;) Somehow the topic of marriage came up and Ryan and I were telling Tyler that someday he would get married and move away but we'd love for him to come and visit us with his kids. He got upset and told us that he's never moving away. He is going to work at carmax and live with daddy forever. Later that night he told me he didn't want to marry a mommy because they are too whiny (better step-up my game!)
Tyler has also been full of questions about Heaven and how we get there and what do we do when we die. He's giving me a run for my money!
Jacob has been doing awesome potty training. He kept real underwear dry for two whole days including running errands and playing at parks. He was phenomenal! He is just a stubborn headed boy and it has to be on his terms. We bought him some "Mater" underwear (he actually ended up picking out Buzz and Woody) and he loves to wear them. I was still nervous and had him wear a pull-up to church but he has been doing awesome. I think he's had maybe 2 accidents in the past 5 days or so and those were only when I got too distracted to remind him to go try every hour or so. So proud of my Jakey!
Adam is a doll as usual. He will be a year old in a few weeks and I can't believe how fast it has gone. It makes me a little sad to realized that this is about the time that we typically would be getting surprised with another little one and knowing that it's not possible anymore (I can't have any more kids due to complications) Bitter sweet. We are excited to see these boys grow and turn into amazing young men.
So- that's the update. I do have some pictures somewhere- just no time to do anything with them. Life is good for now. The boys are learning and growing and Ryan and I are trying to be good parents and love the little rewards we get from the boys when we succeed!