This post was prompted by a question from my Freshman
roomie who I found again after almost 7 years. So, thanks to Margaret, for those of you who may find this fantastic little blog and wonder what the heck happened to get me to this point, well, HERE IT IS...
In the beginning...
I was an
RA at BYU for two years. That means I lived in the same building for three of my four years of college. Good
ol'
Hinckley Hall. I was studying
Exercise Science, Business, and Gerontology. I picked up some
mission papers my Junior summer at home and started the process of filling them out. The Lord most definitely had another plan for me. I'm kinda stubborn so it had to be pretty obvious. I got sick...auto-immune sick. This was a somewhat scary time, but also one of the best of my life. I had direction, dedication, and a whole
lotta faith.
Senior year, I lived off campus in a cute little house. I went up to school a week early to be a Y-Group leader. Someone from the ward knocked on the door of my house and invited me to a BBQ that afternoon. I went, and
that is the very first time I met my future husband. At that time, it was more like, "They guy
BBQing is Ryan, he does activities". My response, "oh.
ok. I've got to go now". Little did I know...
I was called to be
munch and mingle co-chair, which meant weekly meetings with Ryan and a good excuse to give him my number. I couldn't make the meetings because of a job, but I still made it to ward prayer and church so I had plenty of reasons to talk to Ryan. A few weeks passed, I continued to prepare for a mission, continued to date a previous boyfriend and then...
IT ALL CHANGED.
There was one weekend,
a fateful weekend. Ryan went to California to help his parents move, the other boy left town with a friend to New Mexico. Well, one called every day and one didn't. I finally saw the light. After breaking up with Boy A for the umpteenth and final time, Ryan and I gave it a go. And after three weeks of exclusive dating
the "m" word came up. Ryan's story is much better than mine. He says he knew he was going to marry me after the first night we hung out. My "m" word was still "mission" because I am oblivious ;) we can all guess what Ryan's "m" word was.

Well, it was a Thursday night. We went to get shakes for my roommates. Ryan started talking about where "we" could live, where would be better, San Diego or... After shakes and
Shrek II, Ryan went from saying "IF" to "WHEN". Next thing I know we're
planning a wedding! We had a blast calling our parents and freaking them out. No one was expecting a wedding. Ryan officially asked me to marry him on December 8, 2004...finals week.

I recieved a special visitor when I was walking in from a long day at school, drenched! Pretty sure I had to get up for work around 3am that day too...then school, wet, icky. Ryan was waiting for me to have lunch before he left for work. He says, "Why don't you put your stuff down in your room?". I just wanted to eat lunch- but after some convincing I made it into my room and there was a cute little basket on my bed. In the cutest scrapbook-y type note a guy could ever do there were instructions for my
"Finals survival kit". Ryan had put together a bunch of my favorite things to help me get through the week. I had some candy, a good movie, an adorable oil lamp, and some ring cleaner...whatever for, I didn't have a ring...yet. Ryan got down on his knee in my room, right there and pulled the ring box out of a pair of my shoes...tricky boy! He
popped the question and of course I said yes. The wedding took place in beautiful
San Diego in the LDS temple on February 26, 2005 and my forever finally started. 
We
lived in Provo until I graduated then packed up ( we were actually packed before graduation) and headed to Cali. We lived with my parents a bit in
Mission Viejo, at my grandparents a bit while they were on a mission (also in Mission Viejo), back with my parents and now, Henderson, NV.
I have worked as a
personal trainer, a daycare manager, and an
exercise technician at Mission Regional Medical Center. We vacationed to Cancun, Shaver Lake,
Ensenada Mexico, and some other fun joints. Ryan has worked as a night
security guard at
Coto de Caza golf course, an
office manager, doing
cabinetry finish work,
handy man,
painter,
auto-detailer, and some other odds jobs. Ryan went
back to school for real after we were married. He had run his own company in Utah and now it was his turn to do school. He was an amazing student and finished his associates in about 18months...just in time for our first little one.

Tyler Ryan Crooks joined us on
June 13, 2007. He is amazing and is the light of our life...and he is waking up now.

That is the
beginning to our happily ever after...and it definitely is a fairy tale. We are now in
Henderson for Ryan's job which he is doing great in. He is a Senior Loan Service Counselor for
Wachovia. He works too much and too hard, but we love him to death! Try not to be too jealous and I might even add other installments or fun details if I can remember them. Love to all!